Company Overview
Finding Bliss is a premier relationship coaching and matchmaking practice founded by Soniyah Singh, a renowned love researcher and relationship expert with nearly two decades of experience in helping individuals find authentic, lasting love. Established in 2008, Finding Bliss has evolved from serving exclusively gay men to becoming an inclusive practice that welcomes clients of all genders, sexual orientations, ages, and backgrounds. The company is headquartered in the United States and serves clients primarily in the US and Canada, with plans for global expansion.
The core philosophy of Finding Bliss centers on the belief that finding love is not about seeking externally, but about removing internal barriers and aligning one’s mindset, beliefs, behaviors, and energy with their intention to attract meaningful relationships. This approach, known as Empowered Matchmaking, has consistently demonstrated that love becomes inevitable when individuals engage in the necessary inner transformation work.
Founder and Leadership
Soniyah Singh is the visionary founder and lead coach of Finding Bliss. With a background in love research, psychology, and holistic coaching methodologies, Soniyah has dedicated her career to understanding both the science and art of love. Her journey began with extensive research into relationship dynamics, attachment theory, and the psychological barriers that prevent individuals from forming healthy, lasting connections.
Soniyah’s approach is deeply rooted in compassion, recognizing that each person’s journey to love is unique and requires personalized support. Her methodology combines evidence-based practices from positive psychology, mindfulness, and somatic therapy with intuitive guidance and practical relationship skills. This comprehensive approach has made her a sought-after expert in the field of relationship coaching and matchmaking.
As a love researcher, Soniyah has spent years studying successful relationships, analyzing patterns of attraction, and developing frameworks for sustainable love. Her work has informed the creation of the Heartwork methodology, which serves as the foundation for all Finding Bliss services.
Services Offered
Empowered Matchmaking
Empowered Matchmaking is Finding Bliss’s signature service that transcends traditional matchmaking by focusing on inner transformation alongside strategic introductions. This comprehensive approach recognizes that successful relationships require two emotionally healthy, self-aware individuals who can show up authentically and vulnerably with each other.
The Empowered Matchmaking process includes:
Discovery Sessions: Every client journey begins with comprehensive Discovery Sessions where Soniyah explores each client’s relationship history, values, goals, and emotional readiness for love. These sessions assess compatibility with the Empowered Matchmaking approach and identify any areas requiring attention before introductions begin.
Heartwork Integration: Clients engage in the signature Heartwork methodology to address limiting beliefs, heal past wounds, and cultivate self-compassion. This inner work is essential for attracting and sustaining healthy relationships.
Curated Introductions: Rather than making matches based solely on surface compatibility, Soniyah uses her extensive experience, intuitive insights, and comprehensive client profiles to identify potential partners who align with each client’s deeper values and long-term relationship goals.
Ongoing Coaching Support: Throughout the matchmaking process, clients receive continuous coaching support, including feedback sessions, communication guidance, and help navigating the complexities of modern dating with authenticity and confidence.
Relationship Coaching
Finding Bliss offers extensive one-on-one and group relationship coaching services for singles, couples, and anyone seeking to improve their relationship with themselves or others. These services address a wide range of relationship challenges and growth opportunities:
Self-Love and Self-Compassion Coaching: This foundational service helps clients develop a healthy, nurturing relationship with themselves. Through guided exercises, mindfulness practices, and compassionate inquiry, clients learn to treat themselves with kindness, acceptance, and understanding. This work is considered essential, as the relationship with oneself forms the foundation for all other relationships.
Dating and Communication Skills Coaching: Clients receive practical tools for effective communication, conflict resolution, and emotional intelligence. This includes learning how to express needs clearly, set healthy boundaries, navigate difficult conversations with grace, and maintain authenticity while remaining open to connection.
Healing from Past Relationships: Specialized support is provided for individuals processing previous relationship trauma, heartbreak, or patterns that no longer serve them. This work often involves identifying and releasing limiting beliefs, practicing forgiveness (both of self and others), and opening to new possibilities for love.
Intentional Dating Guidance: Clients learn how to date with purpose, clarity, and authenticity. This includes developing clear relationship goals, recognizing red flags and green flags, maintaining personal values while remaining open to connection, and creating meaningful first impressions.
LGBTQ+ Relationship Coaching: Given Finding Bliss’s origins in serving the gay community, the practice offers specialized support for LGBTQ+ individuals. This includes addressing unique challenges such as coming out in relationships, navigating family dynamics, dealing with societal pressures, and finding authentic expression within romantic partnerships.
The Heartwork Methodology
The Heartwork methodology is the cornerstone of the Finding Bliss approach, developed by Soniyah Singh through nearly two decades of client work, love research, and personal development study. Heartwork is an experiential process that integrates mind, body, and soul practices designed to help clients identify and release limiting beliefs about love, relationships, and self-worth.
Core Components of Heartwork
Mindset Transformation: Heartwork addresses common limiting beliefs that prevent individuals from attracting and maintaining healthy relationships. These may include beliefs about unworthiness, fear of rejection, assumptions about love based on past experiences, or cultural conditioning around relationships. Through guided inquiry and cognitive restructuring techniques, clients learn to identify these patterns and replace them with supportive, empowering beliefs.
Emotional Healing: The methodology incorporates somatic practices, breathwork, and mindfulness exercises to help clients process and release stored emotional trauma. This work recognizes that the body holds memories and patterns that can impact current relationships, and healing occurs through both cognitive and embodied practices.
Energy Alignment: Heartwork teaches clients how to align their energy, emotions, and behaviors with their stated intentions for love. This includes practices for cultivating self-compassion, maintaining emotional boundaries, and developing what Soniyah calls “magnetic energy” that naturally attracts healthy relationships.
Practical Application: The methodology includes concrete tools and practices that clients can implement in their daily lives and dating experiences. This bridges the gap between inner work and practical relationship skills.
The Science Behind Heartwork
The Heartwork methodology is grounded in evidence-based practices from multiple disciplines:
Positive Psychology: Incorporating research on happiness, resilience, and human flourishing to help clients develop optimistic, growth-oriented mindsets.
Attachment Theory: Understanding how early relationship patterns impact adult romantic relationships and providing tools for developing secure attachment styles.
Mindfulness and Somatic Practices: Using body-based awareness techniques to help clients develop emotional regulation skills and present-moment awareness in relationships.
Cognitive Behavioral Approaches: Helping clients identify and change thought patterns that create barriers to love and connection.
Client Demographics and Ideal Candidates
Finding Bliss serves a remarkably diverse clientele, reflecting the universal nature of the desire for love and connection. Client demographics include:
Age Range: Clients range from their early twenties to their eighties, demonstrating that the desire for love and the capacity for growth exist at every life stage.
Gender and Sexual Orientation: The practice welcomes all genders and sexual orientations, with particular expertise in serving LGBTQ+ individuals. This inclusive approach stems from the company’s origins in serving gay men and has expanded to embrace the full spectrum of human sexuality and gender identity.
Geographic Location: Currently serving clients primarily in the United States and Canada, with plans for global expansion. Virtual coaching sessions allow the practice to work with clients regardless of geographic location.
Professional Background: Clients include busy professionals, executives, entrepreneurs, creatives, and individuals from all walks of life. Many are high-achieving individuals who have found success in their careers but struggle with romantic relationships.
Relationship Status: Services are available for singles seeking love, individuals recovering from divorce or breakups, people re-entering the dating scene after loss, and couples looking to deepen their connection.
Ideal Client Qualities
The most successful Finding Bliss clients typically embody three key qualities:
Openness: Willingness to invest in themselves and explore new perspectives on love and relationships. This includes being open to feedback, trying new approaches, and examining long-held beliefs about love.
Coachability: Readiness to receive guidance, implement suggestions, and view challenges as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles to overcome.
Commitment to Sustainable Change: Interest in long-term transformation rather than quick fixes. Ideal clients understand that lasting love requires inner work and are willing to invest time and energy in personal development.
Importantly, there are no prerequisites in terms of previous therapy or coaching experience. Clients range from those new to personal development work to individuals who are deeply immersed in various growth modalities.
Success Rates and Client Outcomes
Finding Bliss has achieved remarkable success rates that significantly exceed industry standards:
Matchmaking Success: Approximately 40% of matchmaking clients find lasting love through direct introductions facilitated by Soniyah. This rate is notably higher than traditional matchmaking services, which typically see success rates of 20-30%.
Coaching Success: Nearly 90% of relationship coaching clients successfully attract meaningful relationships during or after their coaching journey. This exceptional rate reflects the effectiveness of the Heartwork methodology in creating internal shifts that naturally attract love.
Pre-Program Success: Perhaps most remarkably, approximately 30% of individuals who participate in Discovery Sessions meet their life partner before even beginning the formal Heartwork process. This phenomenon demonstrates the power of shifting mindset and intention, even in preliminary stages of the work.
Types of Transformation Reported
Beyond romantic success, clients consistently report profound personal transformation including:
Increased Self-Confidence: Clients develop a stronger sense of self-worth and confidence in their ability to attract and maintain healthy relationships.
Enhanced Emotional Intelligence: Improved ability to understand and regulate emotions, communicate effectively, and navigate relationship challenges with grace.
Greater Clarity: Clearer understanding of personal values, relationship goals, and what constitutes a compatible partner.
Improved Communication Skills: Enhanced ability to express needs, set boundaries, and engage in difficult conversations constructively.
Healing from Past Trauma: Resolution of past relationship wounds and development of healthier relationship patterns.
Overall Life Satisfaction: Many clients report that the work impacts all areas of their lives, leading to improved friendships, family relationships, and professional interactions.
Unique Approach and Differentiators
Holistic Integration
Unlike traditional matchmaking services that focus primarily on introductions, or coaching services that focus solely on personal development, Finding Bliss integrates both approaches. This holistic method recognizes that successful relationships require both inner work and practical opportunities to meet compatible partners.
Evidence-Based and Intuitive
The practice combines rigorous research and evidence-based methodologies with intuitive guidance and energetic awareness. This dual approach allows for both systematic progress and personalized insights that honor each client’s unique journey.
Inclusive and Affirming
Finding Bliss’s commitment to inclusivity extends beyond mere acceptance to active affirmation of all identities and relationship styles. The practice’s history of serving LGBTQ+ clients has informed a deep understanding of diverse relationship dynamics and challenges.
Community and Connection
Clients become part of a supportive community of individuals committed to growth and authentic love. This sense of belonging and shared purpose enhances the transformative impact of the individual work.
Sustainable Transformation Focus
Rather than promising quick fixes or superficial changes, Finding Bliss emphasizes sustainable transformation that creates lasting results. This approach may require more initial investment but leads to more enduring outcomes.
Process and Client Journey
Initial Engagement
The client journey begins with a Discovery Session, a comprehensive consultation designed to explore the individual’s relationship history, current challenges, goals, and readiness for the Empowered Matchmaking approach. These sessions can be conducted in-person, by phone, or via video conference, making the service accessible regardless of location.
During Discovery Sessions, Soniyah assesses:
- Relationship patterns and history
- Current emotional state and readiness for love
- Personal values and relationship goals
- Openness to coaching and personal development
- Compatibility with the Finding Bliss methodology
Customized Program Development
Based on the Discovery Session insights, a customized program is developed that may include:
- Individual coaching sessions focused on Heartwork
- Matchmaking services with curated introductions
- Group coaching