Most people imagine a Matchmaker as someone arranging dates and introducing you to potential matches. Names, profiles, introductions, and hopefully, meeting your person. But after nearly two decades of Matchmaking and Love Research, I’ve discovered that the real magic doesn’t always live in the introductions through a Matchmaker. It is about having our mindset come into alignment with our intention of finding Love.
The Reality of Matchmaking
Only about 10% of my clients meet their Beloved through a traditional match from me as their Matchmaker. About 30% meet through online connections. So yes, online dating does work, even though it can be frustrating for some (so you’re not alone!).
And the rest? They find Love in infinite serendipitous ways: getting on a plane, walking a dog, going to an event, having dinner with a friend, an introduction through a friend-of-a-friend, at a wedding, and the list goes on.
These discoveries led me to create what I call Empowered Matchmaking. This is a process that helps you find Love the way it is destined for you, versus charging a retainer and making matches. Because the magic is not always in the introduction itself, it’s about becoming aligned, open, and ready so that Love can find its way to you, in whatever form it chooses.
What Is Empowered Matchmaking?
Traditional Matchmaking often focuses on screened introductions. Empowered Matchmaking expands that by weaving in Relationship Coaching and the Heartwork.
Working with me through Empowered Matchmaking services means:
- Exploring your barriers around Love, relationship, intimacy, and more with curiosity and compassion
- Changing patterns and creating new beginnings that reflect your truest nature
- Becoming a Love Magnet, allowing your intention to be co-created
- Meeting yourself exactly where you are, because Love is not a one-size-fits-all journey
This is where Relationship Coaching is different. Instead of “fixing yourself” to be “dateable,” you return to your natural state of wholeness. The Heartwork supports you whether you are single, newly dating, or in a long-term relationship.
The Path to Love Is Inevitable
Through the Heartwork, I have seen again and again that Love is Inevitable. When your mindset aligns with your intention, your external world reflects it. You do not have to fix yourself. You simply return to your natural state: whole, lovable, and ready to receive.
Discovery Session
If you are curious about what to expect from Empowered Matchmaking, the best place to begin is with a Discovery Session. This is a free 30-minute call where we meet in a safe, confidential space to explore your journey and see if this approach to Love resonates with you.
Because the truth is simple: when you do the Heartwork, Love Ripples.