Why Work With a Matchmaker? Qualities That Lead to Lasting Love Skip to the content

Why Would a Matchmaker Want to Work With You?

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Are you ready to work with a Matchmaker? 

And why would a Matchmaker want to work with you? 

These are questions that often come up when we feel an opening or possibly a closing to the path we’ve been on. In my years of working with people through all stages of life, I’ve learned that finding Love is a co-created process. It isn’t just about me introducing you to someone. It’s about you stepping into alignment within yourself, so that Love can unfold in its most authentic way.

Two Reasons Why My Clients Find Love

There are two simple reasons why the majority of my clients find their Beloved:

  1. I am selective about who I work with. I choose to work with people who are genuinely ready to do the Heartwork. Love is Inevitable, but it requires openness and courage. If you are ready to look inward, explore your patterns, and walk the path with compassion, then we are aligned.
  2. I encourage due diligence. I remind potential clients to make sure this approach feels right for them. There are infinite guides and facilitators in this industry. It’s important to choose the person who feels safe and supportive. When someone is a full Yes to working with me, the Heartwork unfolds naturally.

Three Qualities I Seek in My Clients

If you are considering Empowered Matchmaking, here are three qualities I look for:

  1. Openness. You’re willing to invest in yourself and this part of your life.
  1. Coachability. You’re ready to see things from a new lens, even when it feels uncomfortable.
  1. Commitment to sustainability. You want more than a quick fix or temporary connection. You want Love that lasts.

There’s no prerequisite of having been in therapy or coaching before. What matters is a willingness to show up as you are, ready to grow and to Love.

The Heartwork Difference

Working with a Matchmaker is not only about introductions. In Empowered Matchmaking, the Heartwork is where the transformation happens:

Shifting your mindset into alignment with your deepest intention

Exploring and softening barriers to intimacy and connection

Returning to your natural state of worthiness and Lovability

This is why so many of my clients find Love, sometimes through introductions, sometimes online, and often in the infinite, serendipitous ways the universe weaves Love into our lives.

An Invitation

If you’ve been wondering what to expect from matchmaking, this is your chance to reflect not only on what you’re seeking, but also on who you are as a client. If these qualities resonate, I invite you to schedule a Discovery Session.

Because when you are open, coachable, and ready for sustainable Love, the Heartwork shows again and again: Love is Inevitable.

Soniyah Singh

About Soniyah Singh

Soniyah is the proud owner and founder of Finding Bliss, a Love Researcher, Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, and guide for over 17 years, helping people find the Love they seek. Soniyah passionately believes that with Love all things are possible. She works with singles and couples of all ages, orientations, and backgrounds. She has seen that Love is inevitable, if you are willing to do, what she calls, the Heartwork. With hundreds of real and profound Love stories under her belt, Soniyah meets people exactly where they are at, reshaping what it means to Love.