The truth is, we are a magnet at all times. Our natural state is Love, so being a Magnet to Love would essentially be “natural”. Except, all the things that we are bombarded with, such as social media, societal “shoulds”, cultural conditioning, ancestral beliefs that we inherited and grew up with, on and on… gets in the way of being a Magnet to Love. Instead, we are a magnet to all of the above. From this place, we are co-creating our reality, our external world, based on magnetizing from what we’ve inherited, not what is our natural state.
Returning to Love
Being able to return to a state of Love could be simple or could be complex based on our histories, our experiences, and all that we have inherited. Because this is something that is innate in all of us, in our own unique blueprint, a practice that could be helpful as you are calling in your beloved is to think about the characteristics that are ideal in your partner. Most likely, what you’re calling in is also what you embody and what is innate to you. Practice connecting to this part of you. For example, if you’re calling in someone who is patient with you, for a couple of days practice being patient with yourself moment by moment, in all of your daily interactions with yourself and others. If you are in a relationship and you’re seeking for your partner to be a better listener, practice listening to your own needs and offering yourself what it is that you are desiring.
Essentially the practice is to be the Love that you’re seeking. There’s a universal principle that says “we attract who we are”. This practice validates this principle and we get to create the Love we want. If we choose to do this in our everyday moments, we return to a state of Love. This allows us to be a magnet to what we are versus all the things that are getting in the way.
This is easier said than done. This is not just about positive thinking, it’s about unwinding from years, decades, generations of inherited ways (trauma). So please consider making this a practice, one that you see growth and change in over time. Because being a magnet to Love is inevitable, if we choose.
A way that I like to introduce this practice to my clients is by taking a chunk of days (i.e. 21 days, 40 days, 90 days, 108 days, etc) to create some structure and discipline with a couple of changes you’d like to see within yourself and eventually within your relationship. With practice, this becomes more of a habit and we become a magnet to all things “natural”!
Do’s to be a Magnet to Love
- Do honor yourself, versus what others want for you. Practice self-integrity.
- Do allow yourself to receive
- Do trust that you are worthy
- Do practice daily and moment by moment to return to your natural state
- Do get excited as you witness the changes. Celebrate the small steps!
- Do practice patience in the process of returning to your natural state
- Do speak the truth
- Do allow yourself to feel your feelings
- Do practice being vulnerable and letting yourself be seen in safe spaces
- Do honor the external shifts coming from an internal place
- Do allow magic moments to be acknowledged
- Do acknowledge your progress, and document it
- Do offer yourself gratitude for your journey
Frequency of Love
The frequency of Love is so magnetic, powerful, and healing. Think about a time you experienced being around someone or something that felt emotional, exceptional or extraordinary. Nature, baby animals, and kiddos emit this frequency naturally because they haven’t yet been conditioned or programmed to be otherwise. Notice when you start to emit this by others noticing you! This can come through flirting, compliments, or forms of acknowledgement that are sacred. Even allowing new community that emits this frequency. “Like attracts like”, as they say! It’s important to share this frequency in a good way with the world that deserves to be witnessed by you. So be discerning as well. You are worthy of being selective of the people you allow into your world.
An Invitation
If you would like to be supported to become more of a Love Magnet and are curious about the Heartwork and how Empowered Matchmaking and Relationship Coaching can support you, begin with a Discovery Session. Together we will explore.
